Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

Ok so I really feel I'm going on the right track now. A few more questions.

If she does say the D word or LS or something close to that what do I say? I don't want to agree to that. What is the DB way? Maybe

"I'm sorry to hear you've come to that conclusion. I'm still in a place where I think our marriage can work and be better than it ever was before. This is a very big decision and I'm going to need some time to think it over" then leave and have NO contact with her until it's time to get the kids. And then what do I do. Nothing? When she asks just ignore it? I just get the feeling that's the road she is going to go down, especially if I pressure her with "the talk"

Next what's best to do with the kids? Right now I come to our house and spend time with them 3 or 4 night a week and one weekend day. I don't have my own place so I can't bring them there. I know this is out of the scope of DB'ing but thought someone may have insight.

Lynn