Not hearing that remark was good. IF she presses, you can choose between making it a joke, or saying something like "But I'm not looking", whatever you think you can pull off the best.
Make sure you focus on changing the things in you that you want to change. You are doing it for you, not her.
I just pretended not to hear it.. she had made mention when she dropped the D bomb.. i see so much potential in you, you will make whoever you fall in love with very happy.. at the time my reaction was woe is me... now i choose to pretend i didnt hear it, we will do our walk and do some laughing i am sure.. i guess well see how it goes, wow i almost got thru the whole day without calling her.. i am stronger than i thought..
her friend just emailed me asking how i am doing, it must be hard etc.. and how the new gym is.. not sure how to approach this email.. i might just say the gym is good, i started yoga, likely wont even mention the relationship or even address the "are you selling the house question".. i have a feeling she is going to tell the W everything i say in that email..suggestions?
