You are getting stronger all the time. The GAL stuff sounds great. The less I see of my STXW the better I feel. I feel that this whole thing is about improving ourselves and moving on. It would really creep me out if my W used my soap. Knowing that she is with the OM. I don't want her to touch me much less my soap.
Keep up the GAL. I am making new friends and getting into new things all the time.
