Hello everyone. I have been staying away from here for a bit because, well...sometime you need a break from everyones stories. I have been doing some GAL things....scrapbooking classes, lunch with co-workers, etc etc. My town is expected to have "moderate" flooding on Monday. I should go down to the river and see how it really looks. We get flooding around here frequently.

I have been avoiding H as much as possible. His mother called me the other night to tell me that FIL is in the hospital and BIL got in a fight and was hit with a baseball bat. She couldn't get ahold of my H. So I did call him and just told him that information. He called me yesterday and was totally stressed out over the car insurance. If you recall, I took care of that last week and tried to talk to him about it but he just hung up on me. Somehow the conversation got into how the insurance man knows that H cheated and refuses to leave the house. H goes on and on about how I need to stop telling people because it is personal and it can ruin his reputation. I tell him that he is the one who ruined his own reputation when he decided to commit adultry. That I want everyone in town to know that this divorce is not my fault at all. Also that I thought he would want people to know that he is in love. I know it made him mad. Oh well.

H used my body wash the other day. I wrote in red marker "Go Buy your own!"

I realized the other day that H isn't taking advantage of me as much as he is taking advatage of the law and the whole situation. I speak with the lawyer to go over the settlement tomorrow.

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08