Yes, I think so. I just don't agree with that C that your W sounds normal from what you describe. Maybe that therapist just wasn't any good, your W wasn't being honest with her (I don't get that but my H likes to present a good fake persona to the C and not be honest & maybe your W also did that?), or she has gotten worse this past year? She probably needs a good therapist I think, and/or AD's. I think AD's and therapy are better than going through life depressed. I don't think it is normal to go through life feeling depressed, feeling unappreciated, crying, and the other stuff your W has been doing. I think that's great you're being empathetic (I have some empathy for your W b/c I have been in that situation last year and my husband showed 0% empathy). But of course I think there is only so much you can do (or should have to do). Karen
