LOL! I,m just hoping it's like riding a bike-my memory isn't what it was. BTW No_hill, I really don't like labels cos I've been proved wrong too many times. I like your atitude to the sexes. I would have said I prefer male company to woman's but even that has altered-guess I just met up with diferent woman these past years. I am also making huge efforts to not be judgemental. A failing of mine at one time and one I wasn't totally aware of at the time. Misery aquainted me with strange bed fellows in my black hole days and I learnt so much. What I wouldn,t give for some sun, it's like winter here tonite. I think my book and I will have an early nite and snuggle down now if I can disuade the cat from joining me that would be good.