H called me this afternoon to ask me if I'd received an email from our landlord. Our landlord always sends his correspondence to both of us. The email was regarding our security deposit. I asked H if he knows what he's doing yet. He acted dumb and said, as far as what? I said, as far as moving....do you know where you're going or what you're doing. He told me no and then asked if I knew what I was doing. I hadn't been very forthcoming with my plans yet, as he hadn't had a word to say to me and I just did what I had to do for myself. I said that I'd found a place that I liked. When I told him what place it was, he immediately said....that place is crap, it doesn't have a pool and it's not in a good location. Keep in mind that it's about 3 blocks from where we live now and he's never stepped foot on the property. I said, it's just fine, it does have a pool in the back, it has everything I need and it's the right price. He said...I want you to look at *** & ***. Gave me names of two places. I told him that I'd already looked at both. One didn't have any security on the buildings & the other got really bad reviews for maintenance, up keep & just general management. He was surprised that I knew all that. He just mumbled, well, we'll talk about it later and then told me that there was one other place that I should look at. Trust me folks, I've been looking for a long time now. I know the areas, prices, ammenities....etc. of every place in town. Just another way of H trying to control the situation. His pushing of me may just make me pull away from him even further.



SueS

Last edited by SueS; 06/18/08 08:41 PM.

ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day