H is going to demand a paternity test as he realizes that the STD came from someone other than him. She still denies being with anyone else, but facts is facts...they just are. I pray that its not his, but I just don't think he is going to get that lucky, he hasn't yet. He knows in his heart that shes not a good person, lets face it...good people don't do the things she/they have done, but again, hes in SO deep.

My H will just have to deal with the mess he has made the best way he can. Just like me. To be honest, I have just accepted that there is NOTHING I can do to change this sitch, so make the best of what is. I think this has a lot to do with the way I was raised and some of the things I went through as a kid, it tends to make one pretty resilient. I have been through worse and lived. That which doesn't kill me, usually just pisses me off! I just do the best I can, somedays are better than others, but I'm just not into magical thinking, so its the grim reality or nothing.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option