Now lets get on to the conversatin that we had yesterday. When I was over there to see my son we were just talking a bit. Again she asked me if I wanted to eat whci I did but could not eat a ton because I had a crapload of spaghetti before I went over there. I told her the food was great and thanks and what not. So then we just started talking and I asked how her lawyer meeting was referring to her lawyer for her DUI. Well she responded with "which one" I did not change my behavior when shesaid that just kept talking about her DUI. I asked if she was alright and told her that if she ever needs anything that I would be here for her. Well then she stated that she was waiting for a call back from her other lawyer about us. I avoided the convo about that and told her that I wanted her to be happy and that is all I want right now and she never pursued that conversation anymore.
The conversation then went on about she will probably not be able to go to California in July because she has her court appearance with the DMV about losing her license on the 30th of June, which is the day she is supposed to leave. I said that sucks and if she could maybe get it postponed so that she could go to her seminar. She said she would ask her lawyer about that. The conversation also started about my son going back to Nebraska and then asked if I would be able to go back to Nebraska to bring him back. I told her there is now way I can miss work because I have no vacation left and I could not afford it financially. I kiddingly asked her if I did would she pay my rent, and she said that she would cover the week I miss. Well I laughed and said that I was kidding and did not want her to do that. She then dropped off the deep end and became furious that she was not doing it out of the kindness of her heart that she was just wanting me to go back and see my mother and bring my S back.
From that point on I told her that I would try to figure something out to get my son back so I would not have to miss much work and she just replied to not f'ing worry about it, and that she was not doing a f'ing thing for me. So I then told her that I had to go to work and would let her know what I could do. So this is where we are at now.
I did not change my behavior when shesaid that just kept talking about her DUI. I asked if she was alright and told her that if she ever needs anything that I would be here for her. Well then she stated that she was waiting for a call back from her other lawyer about us. I avoided the convo about that and told her that I wanted her to be happy and that is all I want right now and she never pursued that conversation anymore.