Honestly, it won't happen overnight. It takes time. Just be consistent, and not just going through the motions, but actually continuing on. In the beginning, sometimes it seems hopeless. But as your W starts to see the changes, and she will, and see that they are consistent, she will start to think...hmmmmm....
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
