i still call her my wife (to others).. is that ok?
Welcome redsawks!
Yes, I think so. Other people need to know you still think that way. Just be careful around her. I've been wearing my ring again, but W asks me to take it off when she's around.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
