I read in "Winning your W back before its too late" that you need to ask what miracle it would take to reconcile, but I thought this was against DB. Also says to ask on scale 1 to 10 something about where we stand and what it would take to make it closer to a 10.

W just seems to far down the road on this and wants to get everything agreed on and on paper and be done. Pretty sure W knows I dont know want this.

my stories

M-31
W-28
S7 D2.5
T 8, M 4
W filed 2-14-08
D on hold 3/08
D off hold 5/08
D to be final on/by Nov 08
Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful