Good, at least he's contributing then. I was fearful that he was gambling child support as well.

You know, for sake of the baby, I really hope the doctor made sure he/she was okay with the bad STD OW had. I also hope that it's not your H's baby and he will wake up and see that she was obviously with someone else.

I was very fearful of H getting OW pregnant. I don't know how you're doing it, but I'll have a drink with you on that gender day and the birth day.

I give much kudos to you!