You said early on back on your first post, that was 1 of W's big complaints that you never talked & you said you weren't a good communicator. If it would be a 180 for you to text or communicate openly then do it, then take a step back and watch what happens. Communication isn't all about talking, but it's listening. Like I tell my kids; communication is 90% listening & 10% talking. Just a thought have you asked her what it maight take to fix this? I haven't read your whole sitch just bit's and pieces. It's 1 thing to be a door mat and totally another putting down some boundaries. I will catch up on the rest of your story as soon as I can and go from there.
Like I am the 1 to say this today, but stay positive stay calm and work on yourself
