You are doing the right thing (listen to Jeff...he has loads of great advice). The walk is a fine idea, but remember to let her talk about herself. NO RELATIONSHIP TALK!! She needs to feel free to make a decision and there should be no relationship talk unless she brings it up. Trust me, I know alot about this (Right Jeff???)

Just let the conversation flow and don't try to go against the flow. I believe that humans tend to be impatient, and when we think we see something going well, we want to skip several steps, hurtle over the tall building, and act like Super man...woman and the human heart doesn't work that way. Right now, she is probably thinking you will do anything to get her back, and once she agrees, the old will occur. You have to show her that you are a NEW you, and willing to make good solid changes that will last a lifetime.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..