Detaching is part of the process, Rusty, and it will come and go. Some days you will feel more detached from him than others. As time goes by, you will find yourself in less pain.
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maybe it won't ever come back or work how it is meant to work.
Well, the relationship won't go back to what it was, it cannot, but it could become something better. Something new again.
Glad you're feeling less desperate.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50