Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

"I cannot control you, nor can I make your choices for you. All I can do is let you know that I am NOT willing to live in an open marriage, nor do I approve of you dating other men while we are still married. I felt you should know that, in very clear terms" is your position.

This is perfect. And if she says so what do we do now then I say:

"I think we both need to take some time to think. I've made it clear to you where I stand. I'm very willing to work on this marriage and our relationship problems, but I'm not willing to forfeit my beliefs and have an open marriage."

Then leave. I guess I wait for her to initiate contact, but only to discuss this situation. Although we will have to talk about the kids and our schedule with them at some point before that. I don't want the kids to suffer more than they already are.

Lynn