Hmmm. I'm not the best at suggesting what people say. I struggle with DBing at the best of times...
But yes, I do think if there is some way that you could let him know that you'd like to see him again.. but in a non-threatening way, that would be a great plan.
So, how is the best way to approach it?? That is the question.
Maybe you could mention that you are coming into NY for something (which you really won't be doing.. but he doesn't need to know that).. and if he has time that you'd like to meet up for coffee or something (before you're thing that you're pretending to be doing later on).. discuss his performance since time was limited that night?
Do you think that sounds pursuey? (sp?) It probably does!
Help!!!!!!!!! Anyone out there better at this, please give our wonderful T some none pursuing words!!