Puppy, I think most MCs will see the affair as a "symptom" of other problems rather than the "disease" that needs to be treated. And responsibly, when working for a couple, they are advocates for both persons, not just the "wronged" person. So they are going to try to listen to what each person is saying. It's mostly to facilitate communication, because honestly, by the time an affair happens, communication is gone.
I'm kind of wondering about the Church's stance (Episcopalian, right?) myself.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
