what helped me was to divide my H in two: before and after. Before, he was a good man/father/husband, that man I miss and cherish in the back of my mind. The now, what he is now, I want nothing with,he is a liar and a cheat, a horrible selfish person who's hurt me to no end, the man he was before would've never done that.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
