Yes I know all you are saying Ali - I was trying to get SOB to understand that this is sometimes how the LD spouse feels (that they are just a sex receptical)...I am not saying it is TRUE. It is likely how his wife feels though, as you have felt in the past. But it is not so simple...please don't feel that I don't understand where you are coming from. I have been there and done that, from both sides of the coin.
I am now in a great relationship and we are both HD for ONLY each other and neither of us questions that we may want sex with other people simply because we have high desire.
But when I was younger, married, and "didn't get it", I felt that my ex-husband (HD) would have wanted sex with any attractive woman who walked by. This was not correct, but it was how I felt.
Now I know better - but SOB's wife probably doesn't.
I just want him to THINK about her THOUGHTS, so he can understand her and ultimately, so they can fix this thing.
