I guess I've just hit the point where I'm done too and I can't just walk around him. I need to know my living situation. I am very, very stressed about finances. We have a $2800 mortgage and will soon have $1200 a month in child care costs and I don't have any idea how much money I will make as I haven't ever worked in this region and haven't worked in seven years. The unknowns are haunting me and I'm looking for something solid on which to stand. I will do my best to think twice, but I do need some things here for me and me alone.

I need to know living situations for me and the kids. I need to know the date at which this will be written down for financial purposes. That's all I will ask for and I will make it that's all I need.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.