FA, the money issue reminded me of the first time I busted stbx' A and he told me he owed her money for a loan she made to him to fix his car. I got a cashier's check, he signed it, we went together to her appt, put it under her door with a good bye letter which he wrote, IC and I read.
Lo and behold, turns out that after I left he went back, with his key of course,got rid of the letter and just gave her the money (she was/is a damsel in distress strapped for cash and stbx was the sugar daddy at my expense)
So, be careful and make sure the payments are for what they are supposed to be for.
Quote:
For you see, in the end, it is between you & (your) God It never was between you and them anyway!
That poem is beautiful, despite of the crap stbx put me through i don't wish him ill, I pity him, and I wish he comes through for the children.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
