You don't have to wonder, you know what you want/need to do. Just relax as much as possible and take in all the info Retrouvaille can offer. The one in our area isn't until October and I'm hoping by then H will want to go. He wanted to go a year ago but the had to cancel due to a family crisis.
Yes I will, I'm just trying to get my head right before time you know. I know what I want and need to do, and all the stories I have read about retrouvaille it seems to be a damn good program. I'm just trying to keep things as normal as possible on the home front, so we will get there. Our space has already been paid for. Please pray for us, I appreciate it, and after the experience I had at church this past weekend I know that God is with me.
The changes you make have to be real changes they HAVE to stick. Too many people fall back into old patterns and then its the same old problems.
Let that become one of your mantras.Once you realize you are falling back into old habits, correct yourself. In this matter auto pilot will make you crash, understand?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
And she is acting differently towards me, she ironed my clothes forme last night. I dont know whats going on right now but she is always talking about retrouvaille.
And also she mentioned about us going to church this weekend. And pretty much is saying that we are going to riodoso alone without the kids on our vacation next week. she is throughing me alot of curveballs right now. Im not commenting on anything she is saying, so I'm not letting on how I really feel inside. But I would love to spend this time alone with her. And as far as church goes I have been going alone in the last few weeks or just me and my daughter.
there is a GOD, I have no questions about it. I have been praying and praying, and he came through for me. My wife came on to me Saturday night, as we laid in bed. Now i dont know how to take this whole situation now because Im having alot of angry emotions right now, or even more confused emotions. But we had a makeout/makeup session saturday night. She aplogized for everything, she told me she was being stupid to let her unhappiness take her down that road. She wants to make sure we do things right this time. She told me she is looking forward to our vacation together, and really want us to get through this. She is looking forward to going to retrouvaille, and getting us on the right track. I dont knwo how to take all of this, like I said I do not know if this is a trick she is playing on me or she is for real. JACK I need you right now
