I don't think there is a sure fire time limit. Sometimes it happpens right away, and others...

I believe that the thing to remember is that right now, you have to concentrate on you. When it is early and you are in the midst of the pain, this sounds like the dumbest thing. I remember thinking work on me? Its not my fault!!! He had an OW!!!

Then I started realizing that working on myself killed two birds with one stone., It made me more positive and attractive to my H, and also made me feel better.

If you need to, get a C. I love mine, and even though I have only been seeing her for five or six weeks, the difference is tremendous.

Find faith. It's hard to let go and let God, but it is the best thing you can do. I pray that God controls my heart and if I am supposed to still love my H, then okay, but if I am not, to please take the burden from me. Guess what? I still love him.

Regardless of what the future brings, sometimes little steps help in making you feel better, and ultimately, that is the goal.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..