This is awesome... you see if that quoted DQ comment makes no sense to you. It could be written in Japanese as far as your concerned. Do you understand why it is so hard for your Wife to understand how you take it personally that she doesnt want to have sex? And when you try to explain it to your Wife you could be speaking Spanish as far as shes concerned cause she doesnt understand one word.
I NEVER, EVER, NEVER understood the pain I was causing. Never til it was almost too late. Do you honestly think I would throw my whole Marriage and what I have worked so hard for away... just cause I did not get it. I tired so hard and I always fell short.. I didnt get it. I also had to go thru my H cheating on me several times and that only made it worse for me .
Try not to be so hard on you or on her.... it is honestly like you are speaking foreign languages to one another. It is very hard work but if you can get thru it with time and patience you will feel so Happy you made the effort. ~Ali
