I suspect the reason she hasn't, and why many LD wives won't, is because the truth hurts and it is easier to stay in denial than it is to confront it.
Very true..... I do remember getting hurt... I sometimes misunderstood my Husband... I thought he was saying I was no good in bed.
The Passion was missing....
It is far easier to keep things like they are than to work your a** off and have a better and Happier sex life.
WHY should I have to rock your boat? The Jones down the road have sex once a year and they are just fine? TYPE of mentality is what is making all this even more difficuly I suppose too. We have 2.5 kids a nice house and a great car, a Cat a Dog and the lawn looks great too..... everything you are supposed to strive for. Oh and I forgot the floors are so clean you could eat off them. Mom ( or Dad or that matter) never tells you make sure you f*kc your Husband silly and he will be happy as a clam. NOONE~ I repeat NOONE tells you that. ME? It is my new advice to my girlfriends whose H's are behaving badly. I tell them confront the behavior and then F*kc the **** out of him and see if he doesnt change.! Dont be a doormat but dont withold sex either!
When really the vital thing is what happens in the bedroom and all the hours outside of it nothing else!
Everything can wait.... but your H he cant. We are never really taught that ever and to reprogram? It takes alot more effort than it seems. Especially if the drive is low. I love my H wether he goes down on me or not.. when he does it , sure it puts a smile on my face but even if he didnt I would still love him. that is the difference DQ~ is talking about.
Does your Wife feel loved by you? Do you get along well? Have you read the whole book *(SSM) yet? God bless, ~Ali
Oh and I forgot the floors are so clean you could eat off them.