but after I told her about the pastor pulling me aside, she said well I guess honesty is the best policy, I said what you have to be joking, honesty is the best policy you have to be joking, she said we all make mistakes. I said whatever and I have to go, and I ended to conversation.
I am trying to ignore her, but that doesn't feel right, she wants to talk and tries to draw me into conversations, I feel like I should be sympathetic with her and forgiving, but then I get crap like honesty is the best policy I really don't know what to do with that.
Jeff,
At times like these, consider a truth dart. Not R talk, nor getting bogged down in an argument/discussion, but a simple:
"I agree. Had you been honest with everyone to begin with, perhaps this wouldn't be so difficult right now." If she says "What's THAT supposed to mean?" or in any other way gets into it, just say "I'm not going to discuss this now. You said 'honesty is the best policy' and I was agreeing with you. I have to go (do thus-and-such" and end it.
I said what you have to be joking, honesty is the best policy you have to be joking, she said we all make mistakes. I said whatever and I have to go, and I ended to conversation.