Get Out the Map (8)

[jandn]

I read somewhere if you are nice to the WAS then it makes it so much harder for them to actually D you. SO, like you I am at a crossroad....do I cut all ties so that he can no longer rely on me and maybe be forced to grow but then its easier for him to D me or do I maintain a friendship that might result in him not feeling as bad about leaving because then he can see that I am doing just fine. I wish I had the answer for you, but as you can see I am just as lost as you are.

This is the place I am at also. Damned if you do, damned if you dont. I dont know what is right and what isnt to do. I feel like if do maintain friendship makes it easier cause W will see my happiness and her happiness and that is what she says she wants. Really confusing on what exactly what and when to do things in trying to win the WAS back.

I dont know if OM in picture, but dont know how everyone deals with it and how I would deal with it if I did find out.