Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

Puppy is your story on her somewhere? I would love to read how you worked through it. You W sounds like mine, and I am also a thinker. I research and analyze every angle of everything...which probably gets me into these messes.

The biggest issue I'm having is do I fight or do I let her go. I know if I fight I can win, but is it really a win? Will she grow as a person so we can have a mature relationship? Can I let her go? Can I deal with her going farther into the OM arms? Will she come back to me or is he the one for her?

It's all so confusing.

Lynn