Ok ok got it. I guess I am just feeling angry and raw which is why I wanted the advice. Even though it hurts to keep getting these emails, you are right, its not about me, its gor my S. Thank you for your comments.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008