How do I make myself happy? Sounds like a really dumb question, but when I think about what makes me happy it is other things or people. What makes me happy? My son, the OM, my parents. Hmmmm.....other things make me feel nice, but not happy....like hot baths, candles, drawing, watching movies, shopping, getting my nails done, pink, stationary, etc. etc. I really don't' know how to make myself happy......Right now I am probably depressed so it seems hard to answer that question. Where do you start?