I appreciate all that, but what I'm asking is, should I wait longer or should I tell her that I'd like to talk about this today? I only meant to ask for specific advice.
But since you bring it up . . . you're right. I'm pissed off. It's hard for me to accept that she's not to blame. If she didn't know about the problem, that would be one thing. But she says she knows how hard this is for me. Lord knows, I've told her so many times in so many ways . . . . but she won't do anything about it. I know anger clouds judgment, but it's hard to see your own.
I really am trying to see this from her side, but her side seems to change on a regular basis. I know she doesn't mean to do this, but there have been so many empty promises that only lasted until I fulfilled them--"Maybe if you lost weight," "I just need more help around the house," "I need to get away sometimes and have time for myself." It kills me whether she means to or not.
