Look at the big picture....if you don't do all you can to keep your H's and your S's R healthy and keep them in touch, you open yourself up to being accused by both your S and your H, at sometime in the future, of manipulating them. Not helping them keep in contact could backfire big time. Your S is not a pawn in this - he is a victim.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
