I figured dating for fun was a bit of an odd concept. Dating should be fun, but fun shouldn't be its only goal I guess.
Weird feeling I have now. After the initial sinking feeling on finding out about the OM I now feel relief. I don't feel bond by vows to look after her anymore, she has someone else. I'll always be available as friend if she wants but it feels like a weight lifted from my shoulders. Maybe that is what DBing is, I've been faking it up till now and now its real.
