Honey, you pressure him to get back to the family when things are going well, and you pressure him to move along in the divorce when things are bad. Can't you just stop for a while? Do nothing. At least do nothing, say nothing, to him. If he drags his feet on the divorce, why is that a problem for you? I think you should go to the counseling about communication first. Before you start talking about another subject. Before you fix up the house, before you rent a more expensive place. You admit you have bad communication, and then you just go on a mile a minute pushing on the man. If this is the result of the adderall, you need to stop taking that medicine.
