I do believe she is serious about coming back, or she would not be there. Believe me ADs does cause sexual dysfunction. There are other ADs out there that may or may not help in this area. Her Dr. could answer those questions. I know you want to show her you love her in that way, but think of it like this. If you had a problem, would you not want her to be understanding and patient. Remember D causes a lot of hurt and it doesn't matter who initiates it. Be patient, be kind and supportive. I know I would trade sitches with you in a heartbeat.