I hope thats what it is,I have made it clear that unless she is seriously thinking about coming back then she shouldn't
be at the house.She is basicly living there now as she has some clothes and personal stuff there.I tell her that I love her
and I act more like the "perfect husband"husband should.The hard part is not being able to show how I feel in other ways.
I am going to continue this living arrangement for a while and see if it gets better.