Seems I hit only one out of your three. My full head of dark hair has long gone toward silver (but the ladies tell me I am not permitted to color it - they like it as is) and I'm anything but dark eyes. But I do get stopped,very often, by complete strangers (female) that compliment on my posture(?) and the way I "carry" myself. What's that about? I don't understand that one at all. Open for explanation ladies. I'm really puzzled on that one (or am I just dense!). Since I am an odd duck ,first thing the lady has to have is some intelligence - we will start with just plain common sense. If she can't get passed that - gone/ end of discussion. Second part, if she can hold a conversation and explain her views, where I detect she has actually thought about the topic, whatever it may be, and whether I agree or not makes NO difference to me. It's the fact somebody is "home" upstairs in the brain department. Major points scored. Another major is the eyes - color not important. Must have a certain "sparkle" - which I relate to a self confidence in herself. If that self confidence is lacking - gone. I don't need to raise another one. Now we finally get to the physical aspect - proportinal. Which means short or tall, but in a decent ratio. (although I am partial to a good set of legs, short or tall). Also, age appropriate attire. Dislikes - lady wearing the latest trends, just because they are the latest (but don't do a thing to help her look attractive), wearing heels but obviously struggling to walk in 'em, tall woman NOT wearing heels so she appears shorter (often accompanied by drooping shoulders). Trust me, guys can detect either. Wearing clothes appropriate for someone 20 years your junior (don't borrow your daughters clothes even if they fit) is a no no. Don't bring your baggage along. I'm looking at the future, not your past nor mine. What is back there, is back there and we can't change it. Tell me about it later. Let me know where you want to go, what you want to do, what your ambitions are. Tell me about "forward you". That I will find attractive.
