Thanks for the replies,I am trying to be cool about it all.it is just like we were married right now.We ask each other about doing things we tell each other about plans,even talk about money issues.We talk about our day we do everything together.She still blames the way she feels on the AD's. Is there any other women out there that has been on them that can shead some understanding on how they felt.
Thanks for the replies,I am trying to be cool about it all.it is just like we were married right now.We ask each other about doing things we tell each other about plans,even talk about money issues.We talk about our day we do everything together.She still blames the way she feels on the AD's. Is there any other women out there that has been on them that can shead some understanding on how they felt.
Stop analyzing the situation. If you did a web search, you would find that there can be side effects to ADs and they can effect sexuality. She said it has an effect. Let it go at that (for now).
Randy, Elwood here, ADs does really effect you in many ways. I've been on them for 2 weeks now. It has a deading effect on a lot emotional feelings. I know that the loneliness, being left out of my ex's and sons lives use to make me break down and cry. Made me do and say a lot of stupid things. but since taking them, I am able to keep my emotions in check and not do anything stupid, like putting pressure on her. She is where she wants to be, and this is the perfect opportunity for you to prove the greatest type of love of all, unconditional.
Hey elwwood,nice to hear from you. I am trying to show that,yesterday she refered to the house as home and is starting to leave clothes there.Tings improve daily. This is a reason for no one to give up,I am not totally happy with the sit but it is better than a year ago.I will watch and hope it continues to improve.
Trust me AD's do have side affects and i have heard stories about other woman's problems with AD's, so if she says it's the AD's, it more than likely is.
Trust me AD's do have side affects and i have heard stories about other woman's problems with AD's, so if she says it's the AD's, it more than likely is.
I hope thats what it is,I have made it clear that unless she is seriously thinking about coming back then she shouldn't be at the house.She is basicly living there now as she has some clothes and personal stuff there.I tell her that I love her and I act more like the "perfect husband"husband should.The hard part is not being able to show how I feel in other ways. I am going to continue this living arrangement for a while and see if it gets better.
I do believe she is serious about coming back, or she would not be there. Believe me ADs does cause sexual dysfunction. There are other ADs out there that may or may not help in this area. Her Dr. could answer those questions. I know you want to show her you love her in that way, but think of it like this. If you had a problem, would you not want her to be understanding and patient. Remember D causes a lot of hurt and it doesn't matter who initiates it. Be patient, be kind and supportive. I know I would trade sitches with you in a heartbeat.
One never knows the twist and turns that life will take. There are many who used to say they wished they were in my situation and it was because they saw hope. It didn't turn out as I planned.
