He left then Cheat 2

[No Longer BH]

Ok, my thread finally locked up. Here's a recap....H said ILYNILWY last year then after I found some evidence that he might be having an EA (now wonder if it was a PA) he decided he loved me and wanted to work on R. That lasted all of 3 weeks then things started to fall apart. H became VERY depressed and by March wanted to move out to find himself and his happiness. Started to hear that there might be OW again in April and by the end of May he confirmed that yes he was in a PA. I packed my son up and moved 2 hours away to be with family (still dont know if that is a good DBing move). H is so angry that I stole son away that he cant even hardly look at me now when we exchange S. Keeps demanding I move back so he can be a part of S therapy.


Now that that is done...I am having a delima and I want to know what people think the right thing is here. First, Since last week, H keeps emailing me everyday wanting me to tell him how S is doing. Last week I told him that I thought S would love to tell him on his own and have stopped replying to these messages. He sent an email yesterday that he wanted me to send laptop home w S so that he could install a video camera so they could video conference on their Tues/Thurs night calls. My heart says "I just dont want to have to see him. I dont want to do it" but my brain says that this is for my son and so I am going to do it.

Here the thing I need advice on. H created a hotmail account for S8 so that he could email him pictures of the 2 of them having a great time together. I dont want to have to go into the email account everyday so that I can open up another pic H has sent. It angers me to know end that he is doing this. I feel like if he wants S to have those pics then he should frame them and place them in S room at HIS house. What is your opinion? Am I just being overly sensative because I am so angry right now or am I allowed to say this is my time with S, I dont interfer with your time w S and send photos of me and him having a great time to you.


Any advice is welcome.