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she said that if I really needed some
to go find some



Difficult to say whether she is just testing you or very emotionally detached from you.

RandyH, you are obviously not happy with the lack of progress though you appreciate being together alot of the time. Have you considered investing in some professional advice to see if there is something that you can do/try/change to bring her emotionally closer?

Suit


"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"