Hi Evie. How are you doing? Jen sent me this way. Pay attention to her wise words.
Here is my bit. No real advice just a comment for now on one of your posts.
Okay. Even though I am not with my H, I can tell you that he was a lot like yours. Said and acted like he hated me but took all of that back. He says he doesn't remember saying the things he did to me. Not sure if that is the truth or not but he has apologized and I accepted. So yes, they can turn back. The thing is when they do you will have worked on yourself so much that it won't matter and you will know that the words they said were all about them and nothing to do with you.