randy, I agree sounds great, wish I was at that point. All these are good signs, but do all these signs mean that she is proving herself to you that she is sorry about leaving the marriage. I am not putting you down or bursting your balloon--just wondering how she is regaining your trust--you seem to be bending over backwards of her, she suggests that she can't sleep on your waterbed, so you are all ready to get another bed for her. If I had the chance to sleep in the ex's bed or any other bed in his house, even if I couldn't move the next day because my back was so sore, I wouldn't say anything. I would suck it up and just be greatful that he let me stay.
