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What the hell is "dating for fun"?
Are you advocating that this gentleman run around from woman to woman just having himself a good old time dining and dancing in the hopes it will aid in mending his broken heart?
Hmmm...I don't know what you referred him to but even on the surface this feels like the wrong thing to suggest to a newcomer.
Moreover, it is wrong to steer him towards the unsuspecting women that might well develop feelings for him.
Again, what the hell is "dating for fun"?
Hey maybe next we could advocate that "speed dating" BS so that all of us that are sick and tired of waiting for our spouses to step outta the boat can get a jump on our next dysfunctional relationship.
The only potential problem for me personally would be that my heart wouldn't be in it and no one can hold a candle to my husband and the family we made together.
I suppose I could just look at that as speed BUMP though.
To be passed on my way to screwing up another good man.
No. How about everybody get their sh*t together first before we start steppin' out.
It doesn't matter what your spouse is doing.
All that matters is what is well with YOUR soul.
If 'dating for fun', 'screwin for self-esteem' or 'name the next crock' works you, that is all well and fine.
