"""If you have to agonize over personal communication that is supposed to be of a warm or loving nature, it is almost surely inappropriate, pursuing, and unwelcomed.
Appropriate expressions of warm and loving thoughts come easily and don't make you feel like crap in writing them, sending them, or waiting for a response.""""
If it were not so long, I would get it as a tatoo. I think I will just print it out.
I know I have a hard time with breaking down and sending communicades. I find the hardest thing to deal with is when there is no response. I don't think the knife could twist with any more force.
I tried letters and things before my divorce (before DB) and I have alsoe tried it knowing better in my last relationship. I can say for certain, it didn't work on either one. And I was too afraid to not try even knowing better.