another date set today!

[jandn]

Picking up D left phone in car and of course when ever I dont carry phone, that is when ppl call. Was the W. Didnt check it for over an hour. Pick S up and missed another field trip today so tells me how he doesnt like the place. Like the 2nd one he has missed, the girls their tell me he was late again so wasnt able to go. S says "Im not mad I didnt go" tell him I like his attitude about it.

So get home making dinner for them decide to check vm. Really long one about last time W is going to try to get a hold of me, tried the last few days to get in touch, S doesnt like this place is always crying about going and how W wants to take him somewhere else. Also talked about setting a time I drop them off in morning, making time to get her stuff and the cats, and of course about the house. Said something like "its a great start for us no matter what happens". My mind wants this to be a positive but I know W is saying it as if a great start to talk about getting things split up and sold, one less thing to worry about.

So anyways, after dinner I ask S again what he doesnt like about his daycare. Tells me missing field trips. Says he doesnt like to go into the 2 and 4 yr old rooms when everyone else is on the field trips. Also said doesnt like rest time. So, I need to approach W with this cause she doesnt really know why he dislikes that place. If he went reg time like everyone else, he wouldnt miss field trips and would probably enjoy it. Guess I can try to ask, "well when he has field trips, can he just stay with me?" Actually this Thursday he has one and I drive right by it on the way to W. So easy to drop him off and S off at 7 cause they are only a mile away, but no, I have to take them to W.