"I will live with that for the rest of my life. Right now, when s2 wakes up at night, he cries for Daddy. d4 told me just last night when we were talking about who we love, that she loves Daddy and wants him to come home. She has an idea in her head that when she turns 5, you’ll move back in. I deal with these daily, but the long term affects are what scares me.
I was recently asked, “Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?" I’m done being “right”, now I just want to be happy."
For the first part, tugging on his heart strings, kid stories, etc. won't work right now. The last sentence, he won't believe you. Your actions will show him that you're done being right.
Just IMO, everything else is good.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK