Long time, no see. Looks like things are continuing on as they were. Take it from me, this can go on forever. I have stayed close to my ex over all these years. And things never change. At some point, you will need to change the dynamic. For me, it almost happened earlier this month. The job situation in New England is horrible and I was about a week away from getting in my car and heading to Vegas for a change. Then, a seasonal position came through and I am here until January. The plan remains the same. Actually, I even told the ex I was heading there. She understood. We'll see what happens then.
But remember - this could go on for a very long time.
AnitaSue,
We have been divorced for 3 years and still go to church as a family. Wierd, isn't it!