I'm not as patient as it may seem,I too have a problem asking for more affection and she just says she isn't ready for a R yet.There is no sex.XW has never been a touchy feely type person and she won't have sex until she is in love with anybody.We are together every night until she goes home.I guess we have to cruise along and hope they fallback in love or we give up and try something new.I will leave thursday for around 10 days so maybe this will help since I cna't really go dark with her at my house.I can't figure out why they just can't accept the love we have to give.I will catch up when I get back and don't worry about taking over my thread use it all you want.